What Is Tantric Massage?
Tantra massage is given from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body participates and erotic zones can likewise be touched. A tantra massage takes place on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection in between massage provider and receiver.
Tantric Massage is everything about Caring touch
Tantra massage is offered from the heart. The majority of touch will take location through the hands (or body to body) it is in fact love that touches. The recipient is likewise present, and gets active and likewise feels (ultimately) from the heart.
Complete of attention and presence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch full of attention and presence. Don't look around or being busy with something else, no, your complete attention is on giving or receiving the massage. Tantra massage is not about regular, set patterns are really out of the question.
A tantric massage isn't really about a predetermined outcome
A tantric massage will constantly be various. You never ever know how it will turn out. It is not the technique or the wanted series of massaging that is very important, it has to do with exactly what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most need at the moment? What is great for her/him? Love knows what to do, enjoy constantly has a proper reaction. And so the massage will be precisely that exactly what is needed. Enough is that the provider is present and keeps tuning into his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine also has its own strategy, you can't "do" it.
Tantric massages for that reason frequently take a really surprising course. A tantric massage does not always have to be "great", ending in bliss.
Ways to get the best from your tantric massage
Constantly with regard to limitations
We understood it for a long time, obviously, but since the #MeToo revelations, some things have come up on the planet of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who require their own sexual pleasure/lust on "customers". Obviously, this has little to do with tantric massage. The safety of both provider and receiver always need to be ensured. Loving attunement always comes.
Set clear limits in advance
It is a misconception that a tantric massage should constantly be naked, nonsense. With clothes on is likewise completely ok (though hard to work with oil then). Personally, we have given/received many tantric massages just on the head.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let circulation easily
Triggering and releasing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the primary part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy also gets attention. In a tantric massage, the entire body takes part and erotic zones can likewise be touched. Of course, always with respect for (mutual) boundaries. When triggering life energy, sexual energy plays a crucial role once again. In tantra massage we play with the activation of basic/ sexual/ emotional/ passionate/ love/ creation/ intuitive energy.
Concentrated on the natural delighted state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage is part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a really useful, body-oriented motion, a vision of life intended at growing in love and consciousness. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them.
Generally resulting in a terrific physical, mental well-being
Tantra assists you to become more relaxed, more vibrant, more energetic, more caring therefore a lot more. Actually, you "learn" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. Because this is exactly what happens typically: the recipient is enjoying it! Enjoying is fully permitted! A tantra massage is typically great, in some cases tasty. We, for that reason, welcome you to totally take pleasure in receiving ánd giving a tantric massage. Feel, use your senses. Hear, odor, taste, feel and reveal that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are lots of kinds of massage. Obviously, all massages have particular practices and strategies in common. There is a huge distinction with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (focused on relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Sensual massage (aimed at enjoyment complete satisfaction).
* (Body) therapy (focused on healing).
Not Therapy
Relaxation is a vital part of tantric massage, however of an entirely various order than relaxation massage Why? Well because you are really very energetic during/after the massage. You do not drop off to sleep (unless you are extremely tired), you are extremely alert and mindful! A tantra massage is NOT a sexual massage either. If it gets stuck in sexual research or sexual satisfaction, we would call it various. Tantra massage is definitely not a therapy! It's a sort of fashion nowadays to see tantra massage as a treatment, but treatment is an occupation apart. Tantra massage definitely has recovery results, but that is not an end in itself.
The essentials of tantric massage.
For an in-depth description, see the short article on the essentials of tantric massage. In summary, the following fundamentals stand apart:
Tantra massage suggestions-- before you start
* Develop a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Offer good conditions (physically, however likewise mentally).
* Explain contracts!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage tips-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Make sure your massage is need free, do not press or require anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the entire body.
* Don't only utilize your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Every now and then ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Delight in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Give feedback (enjoyment noises?).
* Integrate in integration (rest) moments.
Demand totally free.
A tantra massage is not a Tantric massage work task, so as a provider you can also enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Once again, do not attempt to enforce anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! You might not be waiting for an emotional cry, however a tantric massage has no objective.
Tantra massage suggestions-- after the massage.
* Take sufficient time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Require time to exchange your experiences.
* Understand that a tantric massage can have a result for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not instantly go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 crucial tantra massage pointers (insights/rules).
* Don't work to an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a delighted ending massage? Yes it can be, it normally is however there is no pressure for you to perform, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Regard borders, set clear borders in advance. Our masseuses are primarily very open minded - they are naturally since of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, of course. Nevertheless, understand that it can end up in a different way.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Energize the entire body. Being excited is regular and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are crucial! A lot can turn up.
* Be alert to renewed freezing moments. Avoid limits from being crossed again.
* Step by step becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Enjoying the renewed balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Offer feedback (e.g. satisfaction noises) and supply combination moments (just doing nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual complete satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage happen?
Do not release, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we imply do not hurry towards the weather ending, hold it, be in the minute, let that sexual energy build and flood your entire body.
Possible impacts of tantric massage.
Gives peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and relaxed (however you will not drop off to sleep). During/after the massage it becomes peaceful in your head (sometimes totally empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of splendidly streaming life energy. Your body armor becomes softer, thinner or even vanishes. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a prospective recovery effect. It is possible that obstructions, psychological injuries come to the surface. There might be an emotional release, consisting of physical responses such as shaking, weeping, shocks. Even though tantra massage is not the very same as healing, this release may heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more caring, you discover what it is like to love yourself.
Is delighting in.
You will feel comfy in your body. The mix of relaxation and a lot of energy means that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In short, tantric massage is ...
* A loving touch.
* Filled with attention and presence.
* The whole body takes part.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without basic kind, without predefined result.
* With respect to (shared) limits.
* Establishes a (heart) connection between the provider and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, ecstatic state of being of the recipient.
* Usually resulting in a wonderful physical, mental well-being (of both).